we wonder what motivates a man today can get them to affirm a pregnancy of his partner.
Our primary concern is the quality of the partnership, a boundless subject, I can not deepen here. The man wants to be sure he will be involved in the emotional power of mother and child and not marginalized.
- The man may have the desire to confirm in a family, the remnants of his father's dominance explore and live the still important role of protector. "I do it once better than my father or neighbor.
- the creative man can entice it to create their own group, with children who have required him to which he be proud of and that he can realize his own child's soul. It is used by some psychologists emphasized time and again that have the male brain interpersonal relationships compared to the female brain much less important. Stringent evidence is not there for this. For the years of adolescence, now until the end of the 29th Year of life is, sometimes it looks like this. Adult men but generally have a similar need for belonging, trust, sharing and "home" as women.
- Some men learn today that a reward has in the not sexually colored tenderness and affection. What will be initiated in women over the body fluids, can be awakened by experience in men. Fathers who work around loosely and skillfully with children and with pleasure, in the press like to call "new men" - an ambiguous predicate!
- children structure the time. Children also have the function to wear something in the future, something of me, beyond death. Give children the time depth of field.
Granted, all these motives to choose for a child are "soft". A "hard" factor was against the old need that dominated a generation ago to our lives: If the man wanted sex, he had to take the child into account. Today lack the "fate" that it decreases its own decision.
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