children are now primarily lucky donor.
hide behind this word, many emotions, feelings, thoughts, ideals to which we attach a high social value.
This high value makes us shy about the "other" to discuss factors that reduce fertility in men. Paternity also means that government, was until recently an important reward factor for the man to speak today which is "non political correct". The so-called '68 generation rule deleted with vehemence of his father's program. Many of today's potential fathers do in the meantime on their own paternal authority no illusions: it must be earned. For the female partner is like. Unconditional followers can not expect the man of her. Exactly this was the promised reward for the introduction of the patriarchy. belonged to its promises and that the Patriarch in the woman always takes precedence over the child. Today, he must find that the woman has since birth of a child less attention to him.
back to the old order?
There are always calls that described here reside tendencies. From time to time, appeals to "old values". But: This does not solve the real problems. We can not in the blood relationship and family back fathers exempt from responsibility for children, even in patriarchal systems that where they prevail, make the people poor. India and Pakistan are good examples of how similar companies initially after 60 years sharing with democracy one hand and patriarchy on the other develop. The Patriarchate disenfranchised not only women but also the sons that paralyzes the adaptation to new.
The man in Western countries has enormous benefits of the liberal social order - that is why he created it. But his tendency toward children is hampered by the loss of some important privileges. Are there cultural rewards that compensate for these drawbacks?
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